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Are You Addicted to Worry?

Seeded on Thu Jul 8, 2010 1:17 PM EDT
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Today, you can't escape it. People are freaked out. Consumed by the fear of the future and constantly stopped by two simple words: "What If..."

In my work, I challenge people to overcome their addictions -- addictions to the the opinions of others, drama, the past and of course, the motherload of them all... WORRY!

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I describe them as addictions that will kill your ability to perform at the level required to achieve your goals and live By Design. I have found and always believed the number one addiction that kills more hopes, dreams, ambitions, plans, relationships and action is the addiction to worry!

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Reply#1 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 1:18 PM EDT
Kathleen-1787644

Rodney - I used to worry a lot but found it so annoying and emotionally unhealthy. Now, after years of modifying my behavior away from this destructive mindset, I will get concerned deeply but worrying? I refuse. *I do have the occasional nightmare, however, job related....that's what talking with my peers helps with immensely.

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Reply#2 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 1:45 PM EDT
Rodney-889389

It's definitely a problem for many people. I have nerve damage from a broken wrist and I suffer from chronic pain syndrome. I've had 5 surgeries and numerous nerve blocks all with little success in reducing my pain. I learned bio feedback as a aid in pain relief and it also help deal mentally with stress (though the Senate blocking unemployment is putting that to the test).

For some people though, worry can be overwhelming. I tend to view things like you, I worry about the things you can change, no sense in worrying about those that you can't.

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#2.1 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 1:53 PM EDT
Kathleen-1787644

"For some people though, worry can be overwhelming." Yes, especially those who have been abused or in war, traumatic experiences - all can lead to PTSD, the "Mother" of all worry! ( I have it). As far as bio-feedback goes I've found it to be very useful in blocking my pain from injuries incurred over the years, Rodney.

    #2.2 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 2:11 PM EDT
    Rodney-889389

    As far as bio-feedback goes I've found it to be very useful in blocking my pain from injuries incurred over the years

    I find it can be mentally exhausting because my pain can persist for weeks without any moderation. It does provide some short term benefit though, but for me I have to use it in combination with drug therapy.

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    #2.3 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 2:27 PM EDT
    Kathleen-1787644

    Rodney - that's normal. I only use a low dose of Motrin and codeine. And, I haven't used it for over a year now because if I take it and am on duty then my testimony can be obliterated from the trial. I'm not willing to have that happen. In your case I see no problem with the mixture of the self-soothing techniques and medication. Damn, if it hurts it drives your blood pressure up, can make you irritable, sleep deprivation sets in, and what's called a positive feedback situation occurs - which is NOT good. It's like layering all of the above together and it wears your body out! That can cause heart problems and ulcers, etc...the scenario, unless taken care of, can cause major health issues. So, take your meds. as you need to and get some sleep and eat healthy food with a lapse now and again! Dear one, don't let taking your meds. cause you to worry needlessly, OK? If your meds. aren't working then see your doctor. I caution you, however, to stay away from any form of Percocet (oxycodone/oxycontin). That med. should only be used post surgery or if you have bone cancer or such severe pain you can't function or take care of yourself, dressing, eating because the pain is so great. E-mail me if you need some help on this pain issue, OK? I'm also a retired nurse investigator....you have to be a nurse to do that job. I may be retired from that but I still know my stuff.

      #2.4 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 2:51 PM EDT
      Rodney-889389

      Thanks for the info,

      It's a condition that I have dealt with for over 10 year (if you are interested here's an article I wrote last year about my condition)

      http://magic3400.newsvine.com/_news/2009/08/08/3132760-chronic-pain-rsd-and-me

      I had my most recent surgery in Aug 2008. My doctor moved to about mid forearm and severed the nerve branch in attempt to shunt the pain signals running up and down my arm. That worked for about a year but the pain has started to increase again here lately.

      I've been on opiates so long that my liver is being affected and I've been forced off, which leave me little in the way of effective pain treatment.

      I have an appointment with the VA this month to discuss where I can go from here. I've had about 10 different doctors involved in my case and most of the pain specialist want to do a spinal cord implant...I decided that I don't want to do that.

      ...but life goes on.

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      #2.5 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 3:02 PM EDT
      Kathleen-1787644

      Rodney - I'll email you so this can be a more private conversation. This sounds serious and needs to be taken that way. I always hope for the best for you. You're my friend. Hugzzz

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      #2.6 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 5:31 PM EDT
      Rodney-889389

      Thank you so much, just got home, I'll check my email...

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      #2.7 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 12:38 AM EDT
      Kathleen-1787644

      I realized after I posted that that I actually need to hear from you. I can't assess a persons problem without listening to what thesymptoms are they explain. Sorry, that was my goof. Got a phone call and had to go to work. E-mail me, OK? I'll be more than happy to help in any way I can.

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      #2.8 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 10:20 AM EDT
      Rodney-889389

      http://magic3400.newsvine.com/_news/2009/08/08/3132760-chronic-pain-rsd-and-me

      The history of my injury is pretty long, but check this link, it tells my story up till my most recent surgery.

      • 2 votes
      #2.9 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 11:48 AM EDT
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      Kathleen-1787644

      CommonCents - I've read a lot of your comments and your name fits ya! Which is a good thing. I hope your're doing well and will stay healthy. you sound like a good person and knowledgable. good have you on the "vine."

        Reply#4 - Thu Jul 8, 2010 5:33 PM EDT
        Kathleen-1787644

        Will do...and I will get back to this article after some research and a meeting I have to go to at 12:30PM.....off subject, sorry. *Damn, spanking hands and turning myself into a pumpkin!

          Reply#5 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 12:09 PM EDT
          Rodney-889389

          OK

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          #5.1 - Fri Jul 9, 2010 1:28 PM EDT
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